forget and forgive

i need to forget and forgive~

these two things are indeed important to me now....i wonder why my problem is never ending~

first,i will forget and forgive this one person...you will no longer stay here...no matter what you did in the past, it is nothing to me now~

and secondly, you, i will forget about everything and you stop right here~i have nothing else to say~

i dont want to make my life miserable...i am better off like this...

but one thing here, do you really think that it is easy to forget and forgive everything~i think it is not possible...to forget and forgive need a lot of courage and braveness...it is not an easy job~to forget might be easy for guys, but it is certainly not easy for them to forgive, and vice versa for girls....

i read this somewhere before, girls can forgive but cant forget....their memories, no matter good or bad will stay with them forever, and if they like one person, most of the things that he had done would be forgivable...

yt, the situation is vastly different for guys, they can forget easily but not forgive....they can over one girl and be with another in a short period, yet they cant forgive their loved ones doing something that is unacceptable for them~

that is why they said women and men are different...as women are from Venus, men are from Mars~

for this, i recommend one book here~by John Gray~it could be a great help in relationship~