Forgive what others did wrong and forget their wrongs
I am(alright,maybe "was") in a moody mode today..maybe its true that human gets influence by others easily..i have nothing to be sad about(for today)...however, most of my friends was quiet today...
so, what i thought was: i better keep my mouth shut too!...now, here's the point, what for to keep our mouth shut when your friends are set to silent mode??
i dont know, but i think wouldn't it be better if we just be more talkative during that time and change our position from being influenced to influential...get it??i bet not...haha..just kidding..
what i am saying is, we need to cheer up the situation a bit,so that our "gloomy pal" can be a cheerio too..ahh...forget about this..
ok, what do you guys think of..erm..betrayal??can you forgive someone after he/she betrayed you especially your close-friend?
for me, i could never do that..i think only "altruistic people" will ever do the forgiving part...i have encountered this situation before..and my decision was: not talking to that particular person in a half-year..hard to believe,right?
but now, i'm trying to be a bit open as my lecturer advised us to.."do not judge people too much, think from different perspectives, try and walk in other's shoes"..(sounds unachieveable)..
if you was/are/will be in this kinda situation, try to forgive that person and do not try to take revenge since retaliation is not good...only brings you to a bad position...as revenge never ends...think about it..
wishes for today: wish that i could try and put myself in other's shoes!
be more forgiving!
go for real shopping(not just window shopping)...hopefully!!!^^
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